Nov 5, Prov 5 Highlights

Proverbs 5:1 "My son, be attentive to my wisdom; incline your ear to my understanding, 2 that you may keep discretion, and your lips may guard knowledge. 3 For the lips of a forbidden woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil."

Like a father to a son, so these words come with wisdom, understanding, discretion and knowledge that we tend to lack. "Lips" are twice mentioned here. First, our lips must guard knowledge. That which we've been taught ought to remain in us and guide us in discretion when tempted. Second, the forbidden woman's lips call the youth to give up wisdom rather than guard it. No matter how sweet and smooth, we must guard knowledge and walk wisely.

Proverbs 5:7 "And now, O sons, listen to me, and do not depart from the words of my mouth. 8 Keep your way far from her, and do not go near the door of her house."

A second exhortation and plea from a father who desires more than anything to get through to his son: keep your way far from her! We are told not to depart and to depart, fast! Do NOT depart from words of wisdom, but DO desperately depart from the forbidden woman. Note: "keep your way far from her." Where are your feet headed? Eyes set? Thoughts fixed?

Proverbs 5:12 "And you say, 'How I hated discipline, and my heart despised reproof! 13 I did not listen to the voice of my teachers or incline my ear to my instructors.'"

The son that did not listen to the father's plea and warning, looks back on his moral blunder and says, "If only I had listened." Watch for the word "discipline" in verse 23.

Proverbs 5:21 "For a man’s ways are before the eyes of the LORD, and he ponders all his paths. 22 The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him, and he is held fast in the cords of his sin. 23 He dies for lack of discipline, and because of his great folly he is led astray."

When it all comes down to it, the father cares not so much of how his son listened to his warning, but that his son realizes this: ALL OUR WAYS ARE BEFORE THE LORD. If our way should take us to the forbidden woman, may we remember our Heavenly Father's omniscience (all-knowing) and omnipresence (all-present). The son fallen into immorality is ensnared, caught in the cords of his sin. There is no easy escape. The "history" of the internet is not quickly erased. The guilt of "going too far" is not easily forgotten. The bondage of immorality of any kind is a snare for the soul. Why? Because he lacked "discipline" to walk wisely in the fear of the Lord.